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In vitro fertilization (IVF) with donor egg and gestational surrogateFor gay men, family building through IVF requires the use of an egg donor and a gestational surrogate. These roles may be provided for gay men by their female relatives or friends, or through women who will provide these services through a fee-based agreement facilitated by an agency and/or attorney.
Egg Donor Categories Known Donors: Sisters, other family members, or friends close to the recipient may donate eggs. Anonymous Donors: If an appropriate known donor is unavailable, an anonymous egg donor may be used. Intended parents normally utilize Egg Donor Agencies to recruit an anonymous egg donor. These women donate eggs to intended parents whose identity may remain anonymous. Anonymous donors are remunerated for their time, effort, inconvenience, and time lost from work. They are not being paid for "selling" their eggs. RSC New England abides by guidelines established by the American Society for Reproductive Medicine to assure that the monetary compensation is not coercive or construed as "purchasing" eggs. All donors complete a questionnaire about known familial genetic diseases which will be traced, as extensively as possible, for at least two generations. There is, of course, a risk that potential donors may fail to reveal an aspect of their genetic history. The potential egg donor (and her partner, if any) will be screened for sexually transmitted diseases such as HIV, hepatitis, syphilis, gonorrhea and Chlamydia, according to FDA regulations. All egg donors undergo a process of controlled ovarian stimulation in which hormonal medications are used to stimulate the ovary to induce maturation of multiple eggs. The only technical difference between standard in vitro fertilization (IVF) and IVF with donor eggs is the involvement of two women. The medical procedures are nearly identical.
Preparation for Gestational Surrogates Choosing a Gestational Surrogate : If a relative or friend is not participating as a donor and/or gestational surrogate, male couples will need to engage an agency and/or attorney that screens and facilitates finding gestational surrogates. Consulting an attorney before making a decision is advised. The assisted reproductive therapy used is in vitro fertilization (IVF). Eggs are retrieved from the donor, are fertilized in the laboratory using the father's sperm, and a healthy embryo is transferred to the surrogate's uterus. (Unused embryos can be frozen for later use to attempt additional pregnancies).
Choosing an Egg Donor and Gestational Surrogate
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